1. she is a bum with no goals and wants to ride a unicorn: FALSE (except the unicorn part) she, most likely, is absolutely brilliant, highly evolved and intuitive, comes from a variety of backgrounds, knows exactly what she wants and how she desires to live, is adventurous in her vocation and heart, is calculated in her free spiritedness, is creative in making and budgeting money.
2. she gives love unconditionally, with no boundaries: FALSE. again, she is intuitive. if you are a scratch and dent dude posing like top shelf, she is not fooled. she will find a box for you; see your good qualities and see if there is some sort of benefit or exchange. this could be small or big. she is actually extremely loyal. she will meet you where you are. if you are a king, she will be a true queen elevating all around. if you are only a king in your pants, she will decide if the dance is worth it or if she needs some real good exercise (don't sleep, it ain't really love. we hunt, too). if you are extremely intelligent, handy, know about investments, have a great music or book collection: that is a valid and completely worthy place to distribute love and attention. free spirited women eat knowledge decadent style.
3. if you are a hotep, church boy, control freak, immature or not too right in the head (the kind who separate good and bad girls based on superficial things) you will miss a real jewel of a woman. you cannot play house with her heart or her inbox. how do you feel when you are with her? she is authentically herself. she is her shadow side, too. as nice as she seems, she'll bust a hole into whatever you think you know of her. most free spirited women hold back tongues like machetes. try her. you'll find out. keep your distance or make sure you are truthful. again, she will meet you where you are. everyone has a right to be. a free spirited woman will know your passive agressive attempts are your insecurities and belong only to you. she won't let you clean off on her. she will ride off on that unicorn, to that next man, a good book, a tropical island, a dance floor. yes. free women perform their own exorcisms. a queen can actually stand alone. she may not want to, but she can.
4. free spirited women love hard and quick. not just romantic love. empaths to a core but will regenerate and renew like spring, once burned. ladies, find yourself intimidated by the raw sensuality of a free woman? don't hate. ask questions! we are our sister's keepers, period. we will help you sort a few things on intimacy and self preservation. we can balance our free spiritedness out with a little tradition. fellas, even if you feel you are not enough, treat her like gold. most of us carry wisdom beyond our understanding (that is a woman's true magic). make friends. you do not want us as enemies. trust. we are witches.
5. there is nothing wrong with a woman who knows herself or strives to know herself deeply and completely. she is love personified. she is the divine in her most majestic and powerful form. to quiet, douse, control, berate, misunderstand this energy is to stifle the natural flow of the universe. treat her well and watch everything restore and blossom.
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